3 reasons why having a bad day doesn't make you a bad mom!
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Now that you've redeemed your bad day, how can you PREVENT the next one from happening in the first place? The answer is right here, in the TEMPER TOOLKIT.
Temper Toolkit
A proven solution to help you CONQUER mom anger FOR GOOD.
Will all the grouchy moms please raise their hand?
Are you tired of the WHINING and the begging and the CONSTANT NOISE?
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Do your kids push you to the brink, so you find yourself SNAPPING AND BARKING at the people you love best... and throwing better tantrums than a toddler?
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Why is it so hard to get a handle on this thing called patience? How in the world can a mom be PATIENT when the kids are sticking pretzels up their nose?
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I get it. I'VE BEEN THERE. And the worst part is, I know what it does to a mom's heart. In our gut, if we're honest, we're afraid we're MESSING UP our kids.
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Do they even LIKE us anymore?
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No. Your kids don't just like you. They LOVE you. And they're more forgiving than you'd think. And you know what else?
God is, too.
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Join me on a journey to rediscover the BEAUTY OF PARENTING, how to FIND JOY where joy has been BURIED under piles of Legos and mismatched socks, and why getting ANGRY is not the end of the world.
In fact, it's just the BEGINNING.
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Hi, I'm Lisa-Jo.
You and I, we get each other.
Most days I can’t find my car keys, my cell phone or my mind. Most nights I think my heart will burst wide open from all the messy love stuffed inside it for those sweetly snoring kids.
And many mornings I want to quit motherhood before I’ve even served the first bowl of Cheerios of the day.
But our kids and our stories are not by accident. They're both a gift from the God who gave them to us. Sometimes we just need a reminder that it's all going to be okay. And it is. I can't wait to tell you why.
The TEMPER TOOLKIT is a no-judgment zone!
Click PLAY to learn how we can tame your temper TOGETHER.
Tools to cut through the mom shame
The TEMPER TOOLKIT is packed full of helpful resources, rooted in Scripture, designed to help you take control of your temper before you lose it!
7 Teaching Videos
Chat mom to mom with Lisa-Jo about anger, guilt, mom fails and regret... and how to finally see yourself the way God sees you.
Downloadable Audio
Prefer the podcast route? Each lesson contains an easy MP3 to download and LISTEN rather than watch, on your own time.
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Temper is not an INCURABLE disease but a TREATABLE condition.
Here's a look at the TIPS and TRICKS plus sisterly butt-kicking advice you'll find inside each of the seven video lessons in the TEMPER TOOLKIT.
Introduction: I promise you’re not the only mom who feels like this!
After more than a decade of parenting there’s very little that can surprise me any more. I’m guessing we have a lot in common. And my plan is to share all my real honest, real life stories to help you feel better about your own. Because I promise you’re not the only one who’s done this.
1: The one thing you can stop feeling guilty about right now
We’ll dig into some stories in the Bible to help you drop what I hope is a good few pounds of mother guilt when it comes to our struggle with temper.
2: Discovering the roots of our anger
It’s impossible to tame a temper that constantly takes you by surprise. Together we’ll trace where our anger comes from and what we can do about it.
3: The one simple scheduling trick to help you tame your temper
Busy moms juggle busy schedules. But this is the one thing we usually forget. And it’s the one thing that can make all the difference.
4: What to do when parenting feels like a hostage negotiation crisis
Nothing is more exhausting than negotiating with mini dictators. Here’s how I quit that special kind of crazy and took back control of our home... and you can, too.
5: Why having a bad day doesn’t make you a bad mom
There’s a simple fact about parenting that is often missed. But it can make or break your perspective on what kind of mom you are growing up to be. We’ll identify and embrace this unique perspective that changes how we see ourselves.
6. What to do when your temper has nothing to do with being angry
Anger isn’t the only reason we might lose our tempers. There are other emotions that come disguised as temper. And we need to learn how to recognize them and what to do with them. Especially this one.
7. So you lost your temper, what comes next?
It’s gonna happen. Because none of us are perfect. It’s what you do next that matters most. And after, “I love you” these might be the most important words we say to our kids.
Plus you'll get 7 BONUS videos on these hot topics!
1. Mom's report card: What do your kids REALLY think of you? (You might be surprised!)
2. How to talk to your husband about temper... so he can HELP and not criticize.
3. How to talk to your kids about temper: EMPOWER them to be part of the solution!
4. Six quick steps to defuse the MOM BOMB: How to calm yourself in the moment. (It really is possible!)
5. Temper Toolkit CHECKLIST: Everything we learn together, boiled down into one handy-dandy checklist. For the visual learners and the list lovers (like me).
6. What to tell that kid who is PUSHING ALL YOUR BUTTONS. You know who I'm talking about.
7. Scream free morning routine: At last! A get-up-and-do-school/work routine that DOESN'T leave the whole house in tears!
All for only $39!
That's over 30% off the regular price of $59. But it's only available for a limited time, and only through this special offer. So grab yours now!
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Real lives are being changed
Laurie Tomlinson
This course couldn’t be more timely for me as I’m learning to better love my five-going-on-fifteen girl and almost two-year-old boy with huge, wild feelings he doesn’t have the words to express yet. I loved the length of the videos and especially the recap at the end of each capsule that drives the main message home. I loved the relatable real-life examples, as always, and the supporting scriptures. Every mama needs the kind of friend like Lisa-Jo who has been there and done that. This dose of grace is an excellent reminder to mothers that they aren’t alone—even in their banshee moments.
Emily Leigh
If you are worn out from hiding, or stuffing, or feeling guilty about your anger, then you need to check out Lisa-Jo Baker's Temper Toolkit. It is brilliantly transparent. You won't find your temper too big or strong for the help that she provides. It is not often something this honest and helpful comes along for mothers. I can't wait to send this as a gift to some of my new mom friends. I have been able to adjust some of my own tendencies and perspectives on my children and all of our big loud emotions after going through this toolkit.
Jennifer Tucker
What a wonderfully practical, super encouraging resource for moms (and dads too)! Lisa-Jo unpacks anger in such a kind and completely relatable way. There is something in this course for everyone – whether you’re struggling through toddler temper tantrums or middle school meltdowns or your own exhaustion-induced irritation – the tools in this course are sure to encourage your heart and give you courage to continue the great mission we’ve been given as parents to shape our kids hearts and leave a lasting legacy of faith in their lives.
Elise Hurd
I have 5 kids 11 yrs old and under. At least 2 of the 5 children push my temper-buttons in fierce, repetitive ways every day because they have BIG feelings. Lisa-Jo's raw honesty, God-centered perspective, and practical tools brought tears to my eyes and I have a new fire in me to love my kids better. SO grateful.
Becky Keife
Lisa-Jo Baker is the real deal. The Temper Toolkit is a biblically sound, desperately relevant lifeline of hope for every mom who feels like she is flailing with anger and floundering in motherhood.
Becky Kopitzke
I've been clinging to Lisa-Jo's wisdom for years, ever since my kiddos were babies and I was drowning in diapers and identity crises. This Temper Toolkit is a rare and encouraging collection of Lisa-Jo's greatest wisdom, kindest solidarity, and "thank God I'm not the only one" vulnerability -- a gift to every mom. I will refer to it again and again.
My personal promise to you
In the TEMPER TOOLKIT I share my personal insights from Scripture as well as my experience as a parent and mentor to thousands of women across the country. I am not a theologian or a certified family therapist; I am simply a mom like you, with a wealth of encouragement to share. If you're not completely satisfied with the content and guidance provided inside this course, just send an email to [email protected] within the first 30 days and I'll return every penny back to you, no questions asked.
I know a thing or two about tempers...
Over the last six years at conferences across the country I have taught thousands of moms how to take control of their tempers. And what I hear over and over is that so many women are nervous to even admit they were coming to a session about mom anger.
Admitting that we moms struggle with temper tantrums of our own is super vulnerable. I get that. I've lived that.
And yet – if the number of women I've spoken with and mentored is anything to go by – clearly temper IS an issue for us moms. And it’s time to start talking about it if we want to have any hope of beating it.
What you don’t need is more guilt. What you need are the tools to help get you through.
That’s why I created the Temper Toolkit -- a collection of all my best practical strategies, honest stories, and Biblical resources to help you take control of your temper BEFORE you lose it. I've packaged up everything I've learned over the last decade-plus of parenting, and what I teach at my workshops so that you can put it into practice in your own home.
Now’s the time to take real life action for real life change. Let's do it together.
Lisa-Jo is a bestselling author, national speaker, and fan of Netflix and hot chocolate.
